Spiritual Bypass – Lost in Bliss

Everything is beautiful… in its own way. If any of our defense mechanisms could be called beautiful, it would be spiritual bypass. On the surface this looks good. I can be happy and I don’t ever have to feel sad again. But is this genuine? Truth is, it’s the same as any other defense mechanism;

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Holding Space

Holding space is one of the highest gifts we can give to each other.  We walk alongside them without judgment, with whatever shows up:  opening and expanding our hearts so they can access theirs. Part of holding space is to allow all your senses to open. It is a way of being present and listening,

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Intimacy, Relationships and Trauma

Relationships are one of our deepest issues tapping into the deep-rooted and innermost conditioning of our inner self.    Relationships are all about intimacy and that can be daunting and risky especially for someone who has never had a model of how to build a healthy, emotional relationship.  It can feel out of reach.   

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