Who Am I During Covid 19?

An excellent question to ask yourself is “ What kind of Human do I want to be during Covid-19?” A client sent me this great graphic that I wanted to share. It helps you evaluate where you are or where you would like to be. Are you in the Fear zone? All about survival and

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Negotiating Fear and Panic

How do we feel safe again in the world when we are facing stress and anxiety on a global level as we have never seen before? We are in a confusing and destabilizing time. Nobody knows what is going to happen tomorrow, next week, or a couple months from now. What’s it going to look

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Is Projection Harming your Relationships?

So much that emerges in our adult relationships we bring from our childhood. We build a template replicated from our earliest experiences that shows us how to create connections. The perfect childhood doesn’t exist. Perhaps we come from a family where we had reasonable parenting and grew up believing that people are inherently good and

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Avoidance Sabotages Growth

Why are we afraid of meeting ourselves just as we are? Scared to be with our thoughts, emotions and our true feelings? The major source of unnecessary anguish I see in my work are those who use avoidance as a way to cope. We have been taught to be afraid of so-called difficult emotions. We

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New Circumstance Old Patterns

The air smells of freedom. Life is new.  The situation is fresh and alive.  Unexpectedly arriving, knocking at the door, pleading to be let back in, are the old comfortable patterns. They don’t make you happy.  But, are oh so familiar and comfortable in a most uncomfortable way and there appears to be is a lot

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